A free decision guide from Malia Chambliss
Stand onbusiness.
Because overthinking ain't a decision.
You've made the pros and cons list. Asked the group chat. Replayed it at 2 a.m. And somehow, you're still sitting on the same decision. This guide gets you to your next move.
10 minutes. 5 questions. 1 next move.Where should I send it?
Free. Straight to your inbox.
For safety, legal, or major financial decisions, seek qualified support when appropriate.
Girl, the group chat can't live your life for you.
Think about the decision you've been sitting on. Now try the first question.
Question 1
Is this actually your decision to make?
Five questions. One next move.
- 1
Is this actually yours to decide?
If not, find the part you can control and start there.
- 2
Do you have enough information?
You need information, not a guarantee.
- 3
If nobody else had an opinion, what would you want?
Not your mama. Not your partner. Not the group chat. You.
- 4
Does it fit your values and your real life?
Your values, your responsibilities, your reality.
- 5
What's actually keeping you from moving?
Disappointing somebody, regret, waiting to be sure. Name it.
You'll walk away with one of three moves.
Tap a card.
Then you keep the receipt.
You put your move in writing, name the first step, and put it on the calendar. Because we're not doing all this thinking just to stay in the same place.
"You've thought about it long enough. Now what are we doing?"
I'm Malia, a former Marriage and Family Therapist and credentialed coach. I made this for the woman who has done all the thinking and is still standing in the same spot. Ten minutes. One move.